How many of you know someone that has been a victim
of other people's sin? People that have
been deeply hurt emotionally, abused physically and sexually, or even touched
by the iron hand of human trafficking.
Their voices have been muted by their perpetrators, families and even
the church. The sinned-against have been
encouraged to forgive their "unrepentant perpetrators" from their
heart. They have been told that their
only pathway to freedom is to forgive someone who has never repented, and to
add insult to injury, they have been told that if they won't forgive, God will
not forgive them.
Beloved, there is a "more excellent way"
that connects them with their justice-making God. A God who is close to the brokenhearted,
hears their cries, dries their tears and moves into action on their behalf. We need to understand repentance and
forgiveness from a two-dimensional biblical worldview, rather than from a religious
individualistic one. We also need to be
able to distinguish sinned-against issues from sinner issues, and see their
different paths for healing.
People are both sinners and the sinned-against. We sin against God and one another, and we
are also the victims of other peoples’ sins.
Both the sinner and the sinned-against can have issues of
broken-heartedness that need to be addressed.
The Gospel of the Kingdom is a demonstrated message
of rescue and relationship.
It is greater than our sins...AND...it is greater than the
effects of others’ sins that have been committed against us.In the biblical worldview the sinned-against have the debt, the power, and the right for justice. The Lord commands, “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave room for the wrath of God; for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay’” (Rom. 12:19; Heb. 10:30; Deut. 32:35). God is on the side of the sinned-against and He hears their cries.
The brokenhearted and the sinned-against are people
whose hearts have been crushed to powder…literally pulverized by the sins that
other people have committed against them.
We serve a God of justice who hears their cries, who cares about their
pain, and who wants to dry their tears. He
wants to un-mute their cries and give them back their voice.
In his book, The Wounded Heart of God, Andrew
Sung Park contends that the church has overlooked the victims of sin and
injustice. In his Korean culture, they
have a term to describe the depth of suffering the sinned-against
experience. That term is called han.
Throughout its history, the church has
been concerned with the sin of people, but has largely overlooked an important
factor in human evil: the pain of the victims of sin. The victims of various types of wronging
express the ineffable experience of deep bitterness and helplessness.
Such an experience of
pain is called han in the Far East.
The church has developed the doctrine of sin and other theological ideas
with the sinner, but not the victim of sin.
The traditional doctrine has been one-sided, seeing the world from the
perspective of the sinner only, failing to take account of the victims of sin
and injustice.
“The experience of the
powerless, the marginalized, and the voiceless in the world can be summed up as
han…Han is the suffering of the
innocent who are caught in the wicked situation of helplessness. It is the void of the soul that cannot be
filled with any superficial patch. This
void is the abysmal darkness of wounded human beings…han is a physical, mental,
and spiritual repercussion to a terrible injustice done to a person, eliciting
a deep ache, a wrenching of all the organs, an intense internalized or
externalized rage, a vengeful obsession, and the sense of helplessness and
hopelessness.” The Other Side of Sin by Andrew Sung Park (47)
Biblical Examples of Han
Cain and Abel (Gen
4:1-16)
–
The story of Cain and Abel is the story
of han. The two brothers gave offerings
to God. Cain’s offering was rejected,
while Abel’s was accepted. Out of anger,
Cain murdered his brother and muted his voice.
Only Abel’s blood cried out to God from the ground (Gen 4:10)
The crying-out blood is
the voice of han
Uriah and David (2
Sam 11)
–
David plotted to have Uriah killed
because he had slept with Uriah’s wife and she had become pregnant. Uriah was sent to a place of battle where he
could not survive, and when he was killed, David married Bathsheba.
–
The faithful, loyal Uriah was betrayed,
and he lost his wife and his life. Like
Abel, Uriah’s voice was muted.
No
English word can adequately express the unfair treatment Uriah received, but
han does.
Our
individualistic worldview causes us to focus theologically on what my
sin does in my relationship with God, with little corporate
responsibility as to how my sin affects those I sinned- against. For a theology that addresses the suffering of
the sinned-against, we have to look outside our Western Christianity to find
theologians that understood the suffering of the sinned against.
If
you would like to hear more about this subject then please "stay
tuned" and in part two you can hear "the rest of the
story!" In the meantime I can
highly recommend two books, "Rediscovering
the Power of Repentance and
Forgiveness," and “Pastoral Theology of Rescue and Relationship For
The Sinned Against: Solidarity and Empowerment For Christian Women Sexually
Abused As Children.” Both of these books
were written by Dr. Leah Coulter and you can find a link to them from my
website www.gloriadinerman.com on "links we like."
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